Do you have the ability to accept the things you can change and the things you cannot change?
Do you have the ability to accept that other people are opting to change them, rather than you changing them?
Do you accept that you are who you are, regardless of what others think?
Can you accept the many transformations that take place in your life?
If you answered yes to one or all of these questions then you are off to the start of improving your personal life. If you are willing to accept, you can laugh, even when something is not funny. For instance, if someone pushed you, you could stand back and laugh. The push is only a threat to your emotion, which you will see, accept and find a way to gain control of the situation.
When you can accept things in life, including you and others you can take control. When you are in control, it helps you to see how you can improve your personal life. When you learn to accept you will learn to discover yourself.
Individuality is personal, which philosophers over generalize this subject. Many people in the world believe that when we act the same way at all times, we have established our identity. Politically incorrect! We have emotions, thoughts, behaviours, actions, and have been plagued by a world of influences both good and bad. Each day we will feel something new, which causes our personality to reflect on these changes. Therefore, when you see someone laughing one minute and crying the next, you are seeing a shift in emotions, which is a normal pattern of identity for this person. Unless the person’s eyes change, behaviours change dramatically, friends change regularly, etc, and you are seeing common behaviours.
We live in a world that desensitizes us. We are surrounded by billions of influences on television, in the media, on radio, in households, government, schools and so forth. Each to their own, but everyone is judging someone at some time, which is something we have to accept. We cannot change these peoples behaviours and ways of thinking, but we can change ours. This is a part of learning and accepting. The best way around the world is to become your influence and allow other influences to make someone else’s life miserable. Only rely on sources that prove truthful with their actions, behaviours and words. Positive reflections are the key to living happier.
Once you learn to accept you will be eager to laugh. For instance, if someone makes you mad you will see the humour in his or her actions. You may see the humour in your actions if you make a mistake and feed into their stupidity.
Once you start to see the humour in life, you will feel better inside. We are involved in an unruly world filled with greedy people, envious souls, lusty tigers, and so on. We have to learn how to work around these people, accept them and move on. Once you learn to change to better yourself, other people may follow. Good conduct has proven far more effective than words to encourage others to change.
As you grow you will feel a new hunger, and that hunger will guide you to discover new ways to better yourself. In time as you start to feel better, you will see a need to exercise, eat right, and hang out with positive influences and so on. Once you feel this hunger, you will feel inspired to labour to achieve your goals.
Changing Habits to Improve your Personal Life
Habits, oh those nasty habits. Habits are developed from training, influences, observation, and practice. We develop many habits throughout our life, which some are good and others are bad. Good habits we can keep, but if one wants to improve their life the bad habits have to take a hike. Getting rid of bad habits however is not easy, especially if an addiction is involved. For this reason, we can take a few steps to learn how you can change your habits.
Making excuses:
People wander through life making excuses. Anytime a person sees something complicated, they will often make excuses for not dealing with the problem. This is just the way I am. This is a common problem in the world, which we’ve all heard billions of times. If you are out to improve your life, however, you need to say, This is something that hinders me from achievement and I have the power to change it.
The first key to success is to stop making excuses. Learn how to tell the truth. The truth is the only answer that leads you to improve your personal life. Once you learn to tell the truth, you will need to commit yourself to learn new behaviours and habits.
You can commit by choosing a new habit. Today I plan to drink more water. Some of us detest water, yet water is our way of living healthier. Instead of detesting something that will save your life, start saying that I will drink more water today. Even if you start out drinking a glass for the first couple of days, you are making changes.
Today I am going to stop judging others and myself. This is a common mistake people make in the world. They spend time judging others and themselves. This gets them nowhere but in a world of chaos. You make your bed, you must learn to sleep in it, which is why you should change your ways. Judging is only for our Master in the sky.
Do you think negative?
I can’t change this. My life is full of nonsense, I can’t swing it anymore.
Why me? Who put a tag on my head, saying persecute me.
If you spend your life thinking negative and saying negative connotations, try changing your ways today.
For instance, say, I can change something and I am going to. Instead of saying life is full of nonsense, accept it as truth yet move ahead to make your life better. Why I am a common question, which no one knows why, yet we have to accept it, make better decisions and move ahead. If you feel persecuted, ask yourself what you are doing that makes you feel this way. Do you have friends or family members weighing you down? If so, then kick their butt down the road and make new friends. No one in life is worth your suffering ongoing. You have the power to make changes, yet you do not have the power to change other people.
When you start to make changes to improve your life, start small. Instead of jumping the gun, take baby steps to success. Too many times people try to change overnight. This only leads to frustration.
When you are working to change your life and habits make sure you seek support and feedback. You do not have to walk the road to success alone. Feedback is found at your library, the Internet, at colleges, and so on. You will find support along these channels as well.
Ask someone you trust to support you and give you feedback when needed also.